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Beth debated whether or not to include this part of our lives on this
or any website. Most people when they hear of domestic discipline
they think of BD/SM fetishes, or the like. Domestic Discipline
however is not a fetish at all. Instead Domestic Discipline is a life
style agreed upon by both party's. Domestic discipline has been
around for probably as long as us humans have been around. In
fact it has only recently fallen out of popularity because times have
changed and also because the rolls of woman have. Domestic
Discipline incorporates domestic duties/chores and discipline in
the form of punishments handed down by the head of the house.
With domestic discipline one person takes on the roll of head of
the house. The head of the house will make all of the major
decisions and most of the small ones. The head of the house is to
be treated with the utmost respect and attentiveness. The head of
house makes the laws/rules and enforces them. The domesticate
must abide by all the laws/rules laid down by the head of the
house as well as any punishments to be handed out. In domestic
discipline the more dominate (usually the male) is usually the head
of house hold and the submissive (usually the female) is the
domesticate. In our case however Beth is the dominate one so that
would make her the head of the house and I am more submissive
so that would make me the domesticate.
or any website. Most people when they hear of domestic discipline
they think of BD/SM fetishes, or the like. Domestic Discipline
however is not a fetish at all. Instead Domestic Discipline is a life
style agreed upon by both party's. Domestic discipline has been
around for probably as long as us humans have been around. In
fact it has only recently fallen out of popularity because times have
changed and also because the rolls of woman have. Domestic
Discipline incorporates domestic duties/chores and discipline in
the form of punishments handed down by the head of the house.
With domestic discipline one person takes on the roll of head of
the house. The head of the house will make all of the major
decisions and most of the small ones. The head of the house is to
be treated with the utmost respect and attentiveness. The head of
house makes the laws/rules and enforces them. The domesticate
must abide by all the laws/rules laid down by the head of the
house as well as any punishments to be handed out. In domestic
discipline the more dominate (usually the male) is usually the head
of house hold and the submissive (usually the female) is the
domesticate. In our case however Beth is the dominate one so that
would make her the head of the house and I am more submissive
so that would make me the domesticate.
What DD means to me!!
What I (Beth) The Wife Of (Eva) Have To Say!
To me Eva is my wife and best friend. But before she started
becoming that, was raised up by a family that trained there son up
to be what they wanted. In this lies the problem, raised to be a good
boy. One that's tough, strong, and does not cry. This leaves me
with a huge chore, I have to undo what has been pushed on My
wife's back all those years. I have to reprogram her back into what
SHE was all along! She was not raised a little girl, and I had to do
that for her. She is now going on a better way, the path that was
predestined all along. This takes a strong hand on my part, never
giving in and yes there are days she cannot sit down because of
her choices. I do punish her as needed.( I do not condone wife
beating) This is something Eva and I decided on together! This is
not for all, and requires lots of love, dedication, and a will to grow
from becoming submissive. Yes I am the head of house hold, and
she is the submissive little wife. This is helping Eva achieve her
goals of being that woman and to US it's worth all the sacrifices
required.
To me Eva is my wife and best friend. But before she started
becoming that, was raised up by a family that trained there son up
to be what they wanted. In this lies the problem, raised to be a good
boy. One that's tough, strong, and does not cry. This leaves me
with a huge chore, I have to undo what has been pushed on My
wife's back all those years. I have to reprogram her back into what
SHE was all along! She was not raised a little girl, and I had to do
that for her. She is now going on a better way, the path that was
predestined all along. This takes a strong hand on my part, never
giving in and yes there are days she cannot sit down because of
her choices. I do punish her as needed.( I do not condone wife
beating) This is something Eva and I decided on together! This is
not for all, and requires lots of love, dedication, and a will to grow
from becoming submissive. Yes I am the head of house hold, and
she is the submissive little wife. This is helping Eva achieve her
goals of being that woman and to US it's worth all the sacrifices
required.
Domestic discipline means allot to me. First it shows the devotion
my wife has for me. I am happy Beth takes the time to help me be a
better person. I believe the domestic chores keep me busy, helps
me build my self esteem. It also lets me give of my self, and show
my love and devotion to beth through my service. The discipline
Beth gives me is what keeps me grounded and I believe it is
necessary at times. I don't like to be disciplined, but I feel it is
important to the structure to our marriage. Since we incorporated
domestic discipline in our marriage we have been getting along
allot better, and no longer quarrel about anything. Beth sets the
rules. The rules include chores that must get done, set bed time,
what goes on the TV, my computer time, no talking back, no lying,
and so on.
my wife has for me. I am happy Beth takes the time to help me be a
better person. I believe the domestic chores keep me busy, helps
me build my self esteem. It also lets me give of my self, and show
my love and devotion to beth through my service. The discipline
Beth gives me is what keeps me grounded and I believe it is
necessary at times. I don't like to be disciplined, but I feel it is
important to the structure to our marriage. Since we incorporated
domestic discipline in our marriage we have been getting along
allot better, and no longer quarrel about anything. Beth sets the
rules. The rules include chores that must get done, set bed time,
what goes on the TV, my computer time, no talking back, no lying,
and so on.
I do know this one thing, without going through the fire one cannot
be refined. And that is just what I am helping Eva with. We have
made up our mind's together, this type of life style is NOT one sided.
She thought it would help her with being a more better eva. And she
thought it would be better for us. We agreed to give it a try, and so
hear we are.
Now I have got her on a strict diet, making her keep her dress code,
and having her work on all things that a woman does! At the end of
the day and week I look at what my ledger book has to say on how
she did. If she gets too many marks I take care of it. (punishment) It
all depends on how bad or good she did. For punishments she has
things taken away, spanked or paddled. She really hates this at
first, acts like a little brat and sulks. But after this she gets the point
and is happy that she will learn from her mishap's!
And at the end of the week there is always
maintenance(punishment). This keep Eva on track and helps her
realize personal goals. This also helps with making our house a
happy home. No power struggle when there is one head of house
hold!
be refined. And that is just what I am helping Eva with. We have
made up our mind's together, this type of life style is NOT one sided.
She thought it would help her with being a more better eva. And she
thought it would be better for us. We agreed to give it a try, and so
hear we are.
Now I have got her on a strict diet, making her keep her dress code,
and having her work on all things that a woman does! At the end of
the day and week I look at what my ledger book has to say on how
she did. If she gets too many marks I take care of it. (punishment) It
all depends on how bad or good she did. For punishments she has
things taken away, spanked or paddled. She really hates this at
first, acts like a little brat and sulks. But after this she gets the point
and is happy that she will learn from her mishap's!
And at the end of the week there is always
maintenance(punishment). This keep Eva on track and helps her
realize personal goals. This also helps with making our house a
happy home. No power struggle when there is one head of house
hold!
Malachi 3:3 "He will sit as a refiner and
purifier of silver."
purifier of silver."
The best forms of punishment are all kinds! All kinds that
leave Eva feeling safe and loved. To do this I always tell
her why she is getting punished, exact the appropriate
punishment, and always give her a bit of space afterward
to reflect. And then I always make sure to come to her and
tell her I love and care for her so very much.
leave Eva feeling safe and loved. To do this I always tell
her why she is getting punished, exact the appropriate
punishment, and always give her a bit of space afterward
to reflect. And then I always make sure to come to her and
tell her I love and care for her so very much.
In the same way, their wives are to be women
worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but
temperate and trustworthy in everything.
1 Timothy 3:11
The Wife of Noble Character
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
6 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the
land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
"Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Proverbs 31: 10-31
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
6 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the
land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
"Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Proverbs 31: 10-31
This passage
could also have
been put on the
Home Maker
Page. But I
decided that this
is what Eva
wants, to be
that noble wife
of great
character! She
may have space
to grow into but
when all is said
and done she
will reap the
rewards and be
able to say to
herself, " Self, I
am that woman!"
could also have
been put on the
Home Maker
Page. But I
decided that this
is what Eva
wants, to be
that noble wife
of great
character! She
may have space
to grow into but
when all is said
and done she
will reap the
rewards and be
able to say to
herself, " Self, I
am that woman!"
I would like to say, that my little wife is working
hard at being a better wife. Being consistent and
strict with her is really starting to pay of. I know
that I have loads of images of punishment on this
page, well just so we don't forget punishments are
all painful. But no pain no gain, for this girl any
ways.
hard at being a better wife. Being consistent and
strict with her is really starting to pay of. I know
that I have loads of images of punishment on this
page, well just so we don't forget punishments are
all painful. But no pain no gain, for this girl any
ways.
| This is one thing that I have no issue with Eva. Only on the rarest occasion does she swear! |
Does this look painful to you? Well not so long ago this
was just how things were done. All persons had there
place and had to except it, or learn the hard way. Eva has
to learn the hard way!
It has come up that people would like to see more on this
page so let's get into things much more in depth. Get that
cup of Coffee, and keep reading!
If you want to know here are the rules by which Eva is
held.
Only two cups of coffee per day....
But first bring me mine!
Eva is held to a tight diet of healthy foods....
Only once a week is she allowed to have a meal of her
choice!
Keeping her dress code is a must!
Keeping up with her duties as house wife always!
Making my dinner on time....
Or, no dinner for Eva!
She is limited to T.V. And computer usage....
But cross me wile she is doing wrong, and bye bye
privileges!
Now this.........
If Eva has the nerve to be sassy with me She gets a hard
spanking, and loss of privileges! If she does not cry I am
doing something wrong!
Once a week Eva gets maintenance! (Spanking) Not like
her punishment spankings, these are some what tamer.
And if all else fails Eva will not be happy with what comes
next. This usually means no sitting for at least a week!
But if She is a good wife and does all things right, She is
rewarded for what she has accomplished! And I get to
see her progress!
was just how things were done. All persons had there
place and had to except it, or learn the hard way. Eva has
to learn the hard way!
It has come up that people would like to see more on this
page so let's get into things much more in depth. Get that
cup of Coffee, and keep reading!
If you want to know here are the rules by which Eva is
held.
Only two cups of coffee per day....
But first bring me mine!
Eva is held to a tight diet of healthy foods....
Only once a week is she allowed to have a meal of her
choice!
Keeping her dress code is a must!
Keeping up with her duties as house wife always!
Making my dinner on time....
Or, no dinner for Eva!
She is limited to T.V. And computer usage....
But cross me wile she is doing wrong, and bye bye
privileges!
Now this.........
If Eva has the nerve to be sassy with me She gets a hard
spanking, and loss of privileges! If she does not cry I am
doing something wrong!
Once a week Eva gets maintenance! (Spanking) Not like
her punishment spankings, these are some what tamer.
And if all else fails Eva will not be happy with what comes
next. This usually means no sitting for at least a week!
But if She is a good wife and does all things right, She is
rewarded for what she has accomplished! And I get to
see her progress!
But wait, I still have to be consistent with Eva or all
bets are off and she gets unrulier than the shades of
red she will see on her backside as a result! This
means I have to keep on my toes with her at all
times. After all a student is only good, if there is
some kind of discipline as a result of poor choices
and bad behavior! Not a threat, a sure fire promise
that if you this you will be getting more of that!
bets are off and she gets unrulier than the shades of
red she will see on her backside as a result! This
means I have to keep on my toes with her at all
times. After all a student is only good, if there is
some kind of discipline as a result of poor choices
and bad behavior! Not a threat, a sure fire promise
that if you this you will be getting more of that!
Take good care of the ones you love, and if you
are blessed the favor will be returned ten fold.
are blessed the favor will be returned ten fold.
Now that’s how to sell a brush!
If you think that there are way
to many photos, well you are
kind of right. But it sure gets
the message across! That Eva
is held to a high standard, and
will be put to the fire if she
refuses to keep her end of
deal. I know that this will only
work if my mind keeps up with
hers!
to many photos, well you are
kind of right. But it sure gets
the message across! That Eva
is held to a high standard, and
will be put to the fire if she
refuses to keep her end of
deal. I know that this will only
work if my mind keeps up with
hers!
| How much pain they have cost us, the evils which have never happened. Thomas Jefferson |
Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necessary. It
fulfils the same function as pain in the human body. It
calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.
Winston Churchill
fulfils the same function as pain in the human body. It
calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.
Winston Churchill
Talk about learning the hard way.
But trust me in the end this would
be a great way to teach a brat
how to learn!
But trust me in the end this would
be a great way to teach a brat
how to learn!
I know that this sounds like a
great idea! When Eva does
wrong things and starts to brat
about, the thing I do with out
any hesitation punish her in what
is the best way for her Misdeed
this always sends her the
message that I do care. Care
to straighten her up ASAP!
For the most part people think
it's all about spanking. It's
not!At times it take a great
big kick in her end zone to get
my point across. But Love is
showing up and doing the hard
work, and it's standing my
ground with a firm strict hand
in EVA'S case! Never once
has Eva been punished without a
just cause.
great idea! When Eva does
wrong things and starts to brat
about, the thing I do with out
any hesitation punish her in what
is the best way for her Misdeed
this always sends her the
message that I do care. Care
to straighten her up ASAP!
For the most part people think
it's all about spanking. It's
not!At times it take a great
big kick in her end zone to get
my point across. But Love is
showing up and doing the hard
work, and it's standing my
ground with a firm strict hand
in EVA'S case! Never once
has Eva been punished without a
just cause.
Where is this
when I need it?
when I need it?
